For the first time in my life, I find myself surrounded by examples of people in wonderful partnership relationships, primarily lasting relationships. Take Don and Barbara. I think they have been married sixty+ years. I hadn't seen Barbara prior to her quite extensive hospital visit that began in mid-December! I eventually made it a point to bring over some flowers and have some quality time with little old Barbara. Barbara and Don are role models for my husband and I. Their partnership is such an model of a stable, rich, abiding love. Following that visit I was deeply moved by the depth of their relationship. They have six adult children and are into the great-grandchildren generation of life. Don cares for Barbara with unwavering faith that her strength will come back.

Witnessing this type of connection is beyond words, really. The atmosphere was filled with knowing and endearment. Words don't work as I attempt to express the union.

Then there are my in-laws. Here again, an example of two lovers who've been through a life full of ups and downs. There is a stability and enduring quality that is so palpable and gives comfort. They've created children who have aspirations of relationships based on communication, mutual respect, laughing, and love. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is hugely helpful for Relationships Attraction, and it's not difficult to understand.

By contrast, there are many families in which many of us have been raised where strife, arguing, and anxiety were a daily occurrences. Interestingly, in either case, there is no "guarantee" that we will model our Mom and Dad. Failing marriages and partnerships still occur when the model was stable and based on love, mutual values, and respect.

So What Is It? A Magic Formula?

So what's actually happening here? They appear to have the magic formula down pact. Has it always been that simple for them? I doubt it. But, these people continuously sustained their will to create and re-create possibility in their love. I am sure life wasn't all perfect and wonderful for them. But they go back to the source of who they are in their relationship with each other. You can attract your own Law of Attraction Relationships today and sky-rocket your level of positive potential!

So why is it different for a lot of us? Everyone comes into this world wanting a little bit of this and a some of that. To change it up. Granted, we tend to be coming into a higher reality in which we can choose more of that which we really want, instead of functioning on creating-by-default setting. We've learned to use the contrast as a point of distinguishing; realizing the contrast of a failed partnership to better define what we desire in a relationship that works; one that is is full of love and clear communication.

Certainly the contrast is good information. But what if you've had enough contrast and you don't know what to do next? If you've read "Create the Love of Your Dreams" or you haev been reading about any of the Law of Attraction teachers, they all say, keep your nose directed to the direction of what it feels like to already have what it is you desire. If you need the help of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means get support! Having an independent listener to talk to will help you move away from old patterns much more quickly.

I'll grant you that sometimes it seems easier said than accomplished. That's where retaining a practice and an accountability comes into play. Why live life being at the effect of it rather than at the creation of it? Find a group, or a buddy with whom you can co-create some perfect relationship affirmations and hold each other accountable for your words and actions.

There's always personal coaching. It's not like psychotherapy that some people keep going to for years and years. Coaching is done to give you the power to to realize where you need to tweak your vibration and understand your own personal inner mechanisms so you can start to manifest the life of your dreams.

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If you desire a thing you do not have, like a delightful relationship or monetary independence, for example, and you have been wanting it for quite a while -- nine months, maybe several years, and it still hasn't shown up -- then there is resistance preventing you from having what you want. There is some key factor amiss in your vibration. If you take the time and care enough to clean up your energy, you'll be in an attractive mode and finally allow what you desire.

Here's the hitch: we don't usuallly know what is off in our vibration. These pesky vibrational differences have been around long enough, we do not really notice them. Akin to the low purr of the computer processor, it simply meshes into the background. I like to name these vibrational differences counter-intentions.

A counter-intention just reflects a very ingrained belief that's been conditioned into us by earlier generations. A counter-intention belies a limiting thought pattern or a mental dialogue based in the past of failing or disempowerment. If you don't understand what your counter-intentions are, that is alright. Simply realize if what you desire is not showing up, something is holding you back, and project a clear message of what you desire. You can manifest your own Law of Attraction Relationships today and increase your level of creative potential!

1. Figure out what you want.

2. Tune in to the mental message you may have acquired about why you can't have it.

3. When negative emotion arises about why you can't have what you want or why it's taking such a long time for it to arrive, soothe yourself into a better feeling thought.

Most people think that you have to make a huge jump in your vibration prior to actual attraction. Not so. You simply have to feel a little bit better in a consistent manner. You should be paying attention so you may know when you're not a match to your want. Thoughts do fly by quickly, this is why attuning to how you feel assists you in catching what is going on in your vibration.

Practice - it'll pay off. If you need the support of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get it! Using an independent listener to talk to can help you move off old patterns much faster.

Keep with it, before you know it people will be asking you "how is it that you married the man of your dreams, get offered all-expenses paid cruises and make bestselling books?!" Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is hugely powerful for Relationships Attraction, and is not hard to grasp.

This, my friend (if you want it) CAN be YOU! Here's to Happiness and Mastery!

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We just arrived back from a Miracle Caribbean Cruise. Why the miracle part? Well, it was one hundred percent free and it just fell out of nowhere and came into our laps. Not only that, but a bunch of the big names in the Self-Improvement world were on it. Maybe you have heard about the Bob Proctor Life Success cruise. We had the opportunity to talk to, exchange ideas, and rub elbows with Bob Proctor, Mark Victor Hansen, Michael and Rickie Beckwith, bestselling authors, Peggy McColl and Debbie Ford and many others!

One Thursday morning, I was just finishing my meditation. My husband was walking down the stairs and I had just announced to him that my creation of having some big names backing our publishing campaign of my book, which at the time was about to be released, was complete. It really felt like they were already synced up. A few hours later, Robert, my husband, sent an email to our publishing coach. When she returned the email, she invited us on the cruise. Apparently she had an extra cabin and desired for us to have it. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is hugely powerful for Relationships Attraction, and it's not hard to grasp.

We thought about it for about a half second and said 'YES'. Friday we headed to Ft. Lauderdale, and that was that.

This is the capability of being in tune with what you really want. That is, what you desire, how you feel and the thing that shows up is continuously a match. I love it when a thing like this happens. It's like a huge green light from the Universe telling me I'm right on track! A Law of Attraction Coach can help you today to free yourself from old limiting thought patterns that inhibit your happiness.

Of course, this isn't always the case. You can create your own Law of Attraction Relationships right now and increase your positive vibration!

"This is always going to be true: What I think and how I'm feeling, and that which comes into your life, is always a vibrational match. But here's the big kicker: That which manifests isn't being created instantly. So, you've got all this waiting time acting as leeway that causes you to get sloppy... If you thought a negative thought and a brick instantly fell on your head each time, you would clean up your thinking. But you're not here to be admonished for your thoughts. You are here to use your brain -- and your focus -- to create."

~ Excerpted from an Abraham-Hicks workshop in Washington, DC. May 7th 2005.

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1. The fear of failure is very human

It might be that in the past a relationship or many have not been successful. Welcome to the club. This same thing happens to each one of us. It does not mean any qualities concerning the nature of your self. It's simply something that happened. You would grant any one of your friends the ability to move on after a situation that may have failed right? Certainly you would. When you consider that failure is just making an area for a new experience. Recall your game. To play and function in the present. Go into it intending to have fun and find something new, not to find out how to validate yourself or prove how unfixable you are. You can create your own Law of Attraction Relationships right now and sky-rocket your positive vibration!

Try on innocence and go full out. Just put it on and see how refreshing it is. Nobody is intending to take something from you that you're not going to give. Sure, there can be various expectations from your date. There's not a thing wrong with having different expectations. Simple and effective communication should should take care of that. Trust me, you're going to come up with varying expectations and levels of compatibility. If you don't, you'd get awfully bored of the date in quite a short period of time. If you decide that you only wanted one play date, so be it. There is no inherent rejecting involved. It's simply a decision on how you or he/she wants to spend their time. It's simply a choice, not a rejection. Using the Law of Attraction is hugely helpful for Relationship Attraction, and it's not difficult to understand.

2. Do you have a case of feeling "not enough"?

Your mental dialogue will say, "I am not skinny enough", "I am not rich enough"; you know that noise. You are simply not enough. Remember that at the center of everyone's being, everyone has that ancient mental monologue, too. You are not the only one here.

Do your hardest to stay present and retaining your purpose in your game. Meaning, the purpose is to have fun. Think of it as an exploration. "What is something novel I can gather concerning myself or my date?" Send the energy just before your date. By that I mean to deliberately project what you desire for your date. For example, "I intend to have fun and laugh on this date. I am going to allow this to be easy and light." Now you've just paved an energetic pathway for your date. A Law of Attraction Coach can assist you right now to free yourself from old limiting thought patterns that inhibit your happiness.

Using passion and deliberation is an easy way to expand your self in the moment. It is an extraordinarily different approach to dating. Practice passion by being full-out and expressive with the focus on having fun. Practice purpose by deliberately intending what you're doing. The most important thing is to HAVE FUN.

The energy of FUN is one of the highest in existence. Let it go. Laugh and let yourself have fun. You'll turn into a magnet for fun people and if you continue practicing that, after a while you will create the perfect lover.

It does not matter if you're 25 or 75 dating - simply enjoy life. If you approach your life as a fun game, where winning and losing isn't relevant, life goes much more smoothly for everyone.

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