Nanette Geiger is the Best Selling Author of "Create the Love of Your Dreams" and Top Law of Attraction Life and Relationship Coach. Nanette's students have manifested the lives and loves of their dreams, financial well being, and healthful bodies, to name just a few of the successes available to you.
If you aren't getting that which you've been wanting for a long time, chances are you have some old thought patterns that were instilled in us from when we're kids and mass consciousness that runs in the background.
Your unconscious does not permit you to have your desires realized due to the the outdated beliefs that were predominant in your mind as you were growing up.
It's just like your computer. If you have an old version of Microsoft Word running and a friend emails you a paper in the latest format. You can't open it in your outdated program due to the fact that the programs simply don't sync up. If you need the support of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get it! Having an independent listener to talk to will help you move off outdated patterns much faster.
You have tried to positively think your way around a lot of your programs, however, you notice you arrive nowhere quite fast, it is due to these belief patterns. Neuroscientists have found that 95-99% of humans' neural activity is operating from the unconscious level. That leaves a tiny percentage that operates within the awareness of our conscious brain.
Positive realization and positive affirmations are derived from our conscious mind. This is a very minuscule processing power in relation to the rest of what's going on in your head. Positive thinking on top that that kind of subconscious mental pattern is like putting butter-cream frosting on top of a mud cake. It does not work and you cannot ingest it. You can create your own Law of Attraction Relationships today and sky-rocket your level of creative energy!
Furthermore, the subconscious mind is 500,000 times faster than that of your conscious mind. When presented the choice between what is conscious and what's in the subconscious, the latter always wins.
You can see that clarifying your desire is essential because you'll see right away what thoughts that go through your mind running opposite to what you want when you try to create the kinds of wealth you want to create. Using the Law of Attraction is amazingly helpful for Relationships Attraction, and is not hard to understand.
Completely understanding your desire totally consciously and going to an area of knowing you can have it, that you deserve it, and feeling AS IF it is already on the path, places you in the category of acting deliberately and intentionally about your thoughts and desires. Now you are in the attracting mode. Quantum Physics is now telling us that the universe operates on the order of an intention fulfilling machine. Maybe this sounds outlandish to you? Maybe at first glance it could. If that is so, you could pose the question, “Why is it that I don't get much of what I desire? Even the persisting ideas that I have daily?”
Well, the reality is you DO. You receive what you are projecting, based in the unconscious expectations you have processing in the background.
What is more, creating from the perspective of thought patterns is simply one facet. Thoughts stripped of the emotional significance of expectancy carries no power. That sends out an extremely weak vibration to the Universe. Scientists say that the heart's energy and magnetic field is 5000 times stronger than that of the brain.
Get your emotions working for you by engaging them when you think about the wealth you desire. In order to turn magnetic to the wealth you want, you must engage your heart, and your emotions.
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Most of us fail to even understand that they have stuck vibration or emotion in early experiences. Negative emotion, be it strong or mild, feels bad and most of us just figure out how to disregard it, live with the negativity, or send it further into the subconscious. We tend to not completely deal with traumatizing emotional experiences.
You've seen the phrase "emotional baggage." Many of us walk around carrying outdated, unfinished, pain-inducing, powerful feelings consistently held somewhere in our minds. These things are an energy pattern and occasionally they turn into physical problems which after a while can become chronic pain, and eventually (unless balanced) into disease. If you need the help of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get it! Using an unbiased listener to check in with can help you move off old patterns much more quickly.
I wanted to put down this groundwork for that which lies underneath the torrent of feelings of less than, low self-esteem, and lack of total acceptance of who you are and self-love. These are huge for a lot of us. But, your life can change very fast if you're willing to do a bit of work.
If you have a vibration pattern that's running you (consciously or unconsciously) there's an energy field, a vibration that continues to project to the Universe... I am not worth enough, capable of loving enough, skinny, rich, pretty, smart enough or whatever. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is hugely helpful for Relationship Attraction, and it's not hard to grasp.
Now you may think you are a very confident type, I know I thought so. But, if you're looking around and you are still not getting that which you want, take it from me, there's a blockage locked in your beliefs in your self-worth to have what you want!
Were you aware that who you are is perfectly loving, kind, worthy, beautiful and brilliant? You ARE love. You were brought from love and you will eventually return to love. That is the reality of who you are. We are all love.
Let us go back to this conversation about selfishness, self-care, self-esteem, and self-acceptance. Let's merge the disparity between these concepts and make some sense of this.
For starters, you can only ever be self-centered. You can only perceive your world from your self-centered perspective. We've been told to believe that it is not right to keep a perspective that is centered in the Self. I am not going to point fingers at the controlling agents of our culture and religions, who think it is optimal to control a group by promising eternal suffering if they did not comply with their ideals. It is all a piece of the game we came to play. You can attract your own Law of Attraction Relationships today and increase your level of creative energy!
The dictionary defines selfish as looking out for number one, maintaining self-interest, self-seeking, egocentric, ungenerous, and caught up in oneself.
I say that if you do not embrace abundant self-love, kindness, and goodness, what you will be able to give will feel more like a drain than a generous giving.
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1. Competitive activity. A Date is not the time to judge yourself, your previous lover, your failures, with his or hers.
2. Skill. Having to project your skill at being a good partner is too much consideration and it will manifest.
3. Chance. Remember you chose to be on this date. Ultimately, there's no chance involved.
4. Endurance. A date isn't a contest to find out who will last the longest at being entertaining or intelligent.
5. Rules. Rules set in stone become a choking point for possibility.
Five Things To DO When Dating.
1. Play. Although these might seem simple, I'll bet many of you don't look at dating as a playful exercise. Remember a time when you were the carefree child playing in the sand? How perfect was that? Not a care in the world, no one to prove yourself to. Simply muddy fun! Look for ways to approach your date with having fun as a first priority. Even if the person on the other side of the table is a serious type. Make the game of the night to find fun. You don't have to see him or her again if they can't play and have fun. Using the Law of Attraction is amazingly helpful for Relationship Attraction, and it's not difficult to understand.
2. Laugh. A cousin to Play, laughing is the most infectious way to spread joy. Before going on any date, especially the first date, remind yourself that you will meaningfully search for a reason to feel good and laugh. Smile as much as possible. At the waitress or waiter, at the host. Or smile for no reason.
3. Listen. This is one of the most significant ways to connect with your date. Meaningful listening is when you shut off the voices in your mind and really listen to what the person across the table is saying. Granted, the critic in your head will probably be desiring to chime in for many reasons. You do not like the manner in which he eats his soup. She's always playing with her hair. Stuff like that are simply distracting from the main purpose. Just realize you are being distracted and pull yourself back into the present. To reiterate, you do not need to see them again. This is an important practice, however, and it's an intimacy builder. You'll want to use this practice in your extended relationship, so why not get your practice in now. By the way, you do not need to listen just in the dating realm. You can create your own Law of Attraction Love right now and sky-rocket your level of positive energy!
4. Eye Contact. Don't simply make eye contact and bob your head. Practice deep listening whilst maintaining eye contact. Practicing this is a wonderful display of your own generosity. And I can promise you, that generosity will come back to you. If you need the support of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means get support! Having an independent listener to talk to will help you move off outdated patterns much more quickly.
5. Communicate. When it's your time to talk, strive for clarity and being heard. As you've given your time to your date, desire the same. You haven't interrupted him or her while he or she has been talking. If an interruption happens, ask for the same manners. You can be polite and nice about this without turning it into a problem. Just nicely ask for what you'd like. Feeling confident with what you want takes much pressure off your date. You leave them firmly knowing what you want.
It does not matter if you're twenty-five or seventy-five dating - simply enjoy life - if viewed as a fun game, where there are no losers, your date will function much more smoothly for everyone.
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What is Intentional Dating? Would you not love to understand how to date intentionally?
Are you bored of failing yet another date in search of Mr. or Ms. Right? Does the thought of the Dating Game cause you to you run for cover?
You're most likely not engaging in the dating game simply for easy fun. Put another way, it's not a game or something to do for fun for you. Most likely you're searching for a meaningful connection with another individual who shares your interests. Someone with whom you can share pleasant conversation, fun activities and sync up on a number of similar interests.
It does not matter if you have just ended a meaningful relationship or are tired of searching the online dating sites, it is time you try Intentional Dating. If you need the help of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get support! Using an unbiased listener to check in with can help you move away from old patterns much faster.
Imagine if I could show you how to go about clarifying what you want, as well as your intentions before you wade past the muck and mire of the dating scene?
Your thoughts create your reality - so wouldn't you want to know what is really past those nagging thoughts that keep you going through dates like the proverbial 'revolving door,' or keep you sitting in front of the TV on Saturday nights, instead of sending yourself out there shaking it up with life? Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is amazingly powerful for Relationships Attraction, and is not difficult to understand.
How about figuring out the source of the problem, manifesting a fun game concerning dating and then acquire the result you desire -- a truly fun and loving relationship?
Does any of this seem good to you? Of course it does!
To begin, we need to define the word GAME...
1. Game - An amusement or pastime.
2. Game - A competitive activity involving skill, chance, or endurance with two or more people who engage in the game following a code of rules, either for their own pleasure or for that of onlookers.
The second definition generalizes the way many of us feel about dating. However, if it is not fun, something is out of alignment. You can manifest your own Law of Attraction Relationships today and sky-rocket your level of positive potential!
To most people, the second definition contains elements that strip the FUN directly out of the act of dating. These elements are:
Competition, Skill, Chance, Endurance and Rules. These are definite fun-busters!
Strangely enough, these are the qualities to stay away from when dating.
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Now from the mindset of the Law of Attraction, the source of that which you resonate is attracted or brought right back to you. Assuming that is so, (and it is) doesn't it makes sense to get dressed with a grin before you leave the house? It becomes a matter of performing the characteristics of self-confidence; becoming clear about what you want, the ability to attain it, knowing you're worthy of the things you desire, and being naturally expectant that the timing is always in perfect order.
In order to be in the conscious attracting dating mode, you need to energetically dress for happiness. To win the dating scene, you should want to realize it is your choice. You brought it into existence, so make it out to be fun. Now you are in the mindset of going forth with confidence. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is amazingly powerful for Relationship Attraction, and is not difficult to understand.
It would be a helpful idea to script what you want as an outcome for your date. Create a little summation of an after-the-fact perfect date. Write as if the date was already successful and you're really happy with the outcome. If you don't have anyone to go on a date with, write a perfect result from a trip to the library or coffee shop. You're manifesting your entire life by your beliefs and your thoughts, so why not get attractive and meaningful about it. You could pleasantly surprise yourself. You can manifest your own Law of Attraction Relationships today and sky-rocket your level of creative energy!
Your happiness in life is directly causal to how you perceive every event, situation, or outcome. It's not always easy to realize that our interpretation of an event is what causes it to be good or bad. Truly empower yourself by taking one hundred percent responsibility for your joy and self-expression. No one else has the chance to make you feel bad or good, for that matter. It is always an inside job. If you need the support of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means get support! Having an independent listener to check in with will help you move off old patterns much faster.
Recall, dating is simply a game. Being in a relationship is a game. We go into it to have fun, to explore and expand our nature. Make sure the game is for fun, not to win. Do this and you'll perpetually have a great experience. I wish you wonderfully fun adventures!
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