Most of us fail to even understand that they have stuck vibration or emotion in early experiences. Negative emotion, be it strong or mild, feels bad and most of us just figure out how to disregard it, live with the negativity, or send it further into the subconscious. We tend to not completely deal with traumatizing emotional experiences.

You've seen the phrase "emotional baggage." Many of us walk around carrying outdated, unfinished, pain-inducing, powerful feelings consistently held somewhere in our minds. These things are an energy pattern and occasionally they turn into physical problems which after a while can become chronic pain, and eventually (unless balanced) into disease. If you need the help of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get it! Using an unbiased listener to check in with can help you move off old patterns much more quickly.

I wanted to put down this groundwork for that which lies underneath the torrent of feelings of less than, low self-esteem, and lack of total acceptance of who you are and self-love. These are huge for a lot of us. But, your life can change very fast if you're willing to do a bit of work.

If you have a vibration pattern that's running you (consciously or unconsciously) there's an energy field, a vibration that continues to project to the Universe... I am not worth enough, capable of loving enough, skinny, rich, pretty, smart enough or whatever. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is hugely helpful for Relationship Attraction, and it's not hard to grasp.

Now you may think you are a very confident type, I know I thought so. But, if you're looking around and you are still not getting that which you want, take it from me, there's a blockage locked in your beliefs in your self-worth to have what you want!

Were you aware that who you are is perfectly loving, kind, worthy, beautiful and brilliant? You ARE love. You were brought from love and you will eventually return to love. That is the reality of who you are. We are all love.

Let us go back to this conversation about selfishness, self-care, self-esteem, and self-acceptance. Let's merge the disparity between these concepts and make some sense of this.

For starters, you can only ever be self-centered. You can only perceive your world from your self-centered perspective. We've been told to believe that it is not right to keep a perspective that is centered in the Self. I am not going to point fingers at the controlling agents of our culture and religions, who think it is optimal to control a group by promising eternal suffering if they did not comply with their ideals. It is all a piece of the game we came to play. You can attract your own Law of Attraction Relationships today and increase your level of creative energy!

The dictionary defines selfish as looking out for number one, maintaining self-interest, self-seeking, egocentric, ungenerous, and caught up in oneself.

I say that if you do not embrace abundant self-love, kindness, and goodness, what you will be able to give will feel more like a drain than a generous giving.

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