Valentine's Day brings out the romantic in most of us. At the very least, it's a day that we would LIKE to have the romantic drawn out in us. In a relationship or not, when you think about Valentine's Day do you not remember those absurd little cupid cards we sent around to fellow children in school or the cards we created in class for our Moms?

Other references and reminders we have about Valentine's Day and what it actually means to be in a relationship or not can make us feel good or bad, depending on the past. Unfortunately, most of what feelings we experience, no matter what the status of our relationship is is brought to bear in our minds by the conditioned thinking that's 'out there' in the mass consciousness.

Don't pay attention to what they are saying. Don't listen if it does not uplift and empower you. You are excellent exactly the way you are.

If you desire a relationship and don't have one, great! You have the opportunity to clarify what you want. Now you're in a great place to start to manifest a relationship from a renewed ‌initial point.

If you are in a relationship and are not very happy with the way things are going, no problem. Now you can better gain clarity on what you DO desire in a loving relationship, based on the differences you are currently dealing with. Get a free Relationship Coaching session today, no strings attached!

Valentine's Day, whether you are in a relationship or not, can be a day where you experience the love that's coming to you! But, you have to be proactive in this. You're the one who gets the first say and has the creative control over what you desire in your relationship. A Relationship Coach can help you get clear on what you want and help you achieve the relationship of a lifetime!

This is where many of us sleep on the job. We are sitting on our thumbs while we wait for the circumstances to change out there. We're waiting for him to take charge. We are hoping that if we give him enough hints, he will step up and finally get into gear. WRONG. Do not do this. That's letting yourself be at the receiving end, rather than the causal end of your life. You make the decisions. The only thing you need to do is make a gentle request, to your existing beloved or to the Universe. Next, you'll need to get out of the way. You need to let go of the how, the what, and the when of your request. Attachment to the outcome is essentially resisting what you desire. You can't say "Come in" with your hand keeping the door closed and expect it to enter. Perhaps that is easier said than done. But that is why life coaching exists for those of us who need to gain clear on why we're not getting what we desire and then help us to align with what we do so it may manifest. If you want to get a head-start on attracting the love of your dreams, you can get great coaching from a Law of Attraction Coach. Get your free consultation today!

It comes down to three steps. Ask, Align, and Allow. Simple, right? Not necessarily easy. Ask yourself "What could be available to me in a loving, aligned, co-creative partnership?" "What would be possible for me in my life if I had a mutual, loving relationship"? Dream Big! Now start to live in the energy of what your life would look like and feel like if you were enjoying that currently. Use your imagination - remember what you did so effortlessly when you were a kid?

I am always truly moved when I think of all of the amazing miracles I've created by way of creating my amazing husband. A little over 4 years ago, I was one of the people who had more unsettling endings to relationships than I would want to admit. Then, I really buckled down with Law of Attraction. I did the play/work. I dropped my barriers to love, got aligned and quickly created the love of my life.

This Valentine's Day, this year, I hope you are as blessed as I am in your relationship. I know you deserve it. By the way, a relationship is continuous co-creation, as is life. I wish you a happy life, true love and perfect creation.

For more information on magnetically attracting your ideal love relationship, go here... http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com