Single people who want to appreciate the Law of Attraction to attract a relationship sometimes come to me for advice. These people ask, “Can you attract an incompatible lover?” The answer to that is Yes and No. I'll elaborate. You create the “Wrong” lover with a basis on what it is you project you want. That is, your positive thoughts are saying “I want a lover who is fun, caring, and passionate. Someone who will treat me well” but your true expectation is something more to the tune of ... “I can never see the correct woman. Why is it my friends have such a simple route? What am I doing incorrectly? Where are all of the eligible wonderful women? And so on. So you are going to be attracting more about what you are thinking and expecting. So is she wrong? Or is your thinking incorrect? The Law of Attraction states what you pay attention to you get more of. So if you are single and are looking for a love, you must focus on what it's like to be in love, not the opposite.

A fantastic way to improve your thinking on this is by wielding a powerful tool that Abraham-Hicks teaches called Book of Positive Aspects. This is a powerful tool for creating a Love with the Law of Attraction.

You should wield this tool when you find you experience a lot of negative emotion and need to keep changing the direction of your vibration and find a better feeling mindset. When you desire to improve your threshold of creation because you have got some negative vibrations. Here's how it works: you should do this in written form to get the jist of the exercise. I really recommend that you always write a Book of Positive Aspects. You'll wish to set aside at least 15 minutes for this process.

Near the top of the paper write the subject of what you want a better vibration set point on. Maybe something has caught your attention that you do not like, you'd prefer to not experience it, or perhaps you have acquired a large bit of judgment about this subject and resent yourself for it. Write down what that is. Now see that you know what you do not want and the contrast has helped you to hone the desire of what you actually want. Your job is to put down in detail you want. And keep directing your desire to the better feeling desire. Write down lists of what you like about what IS working, what's good, what you have that you DO like, even about the current situation. Look for aspects of your life to be appreciative of in the situation and in any outside or related life situation. This will turn you to the positive attraction mode. You'll attract what you desire rather than its opposite. Test it out for yourself. What do you have to lose?

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