These are the findings from a survey taken by a popular dating site.

Choose the most important features of a lover:

1. Appearance 11%

2. Personality 30%

3. Physique 5%

4. Sense of Humor 14%

5. Eyes 10%

6. Popularity 0%

7. Smile 12%

8. Hair 7%

9. Education 7%

10. Career 3%

So you see, personality is at the top, with none of the others even getting close!

What does that say about a person? What does it mean for the dater and the datee? It means that personality, no matter what side of the table you're on, is a desireable character trait from any person's point of view.

Now, 'Appearance' is often seen as an external representation of a person. But as I have explained, 'Personality' was ranked number one. Personality, self-confidence, an engaging manner, warmth, and authenticity are the traits that win out over physical appearance. So many of us are hung up on physical appearance, we get halted before we start. If you need the help of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get support! Using an unbiased listener to check in with will help you move off outdated patterns much more quickly.

What are traits of personality? Confidence. Self-confidence to be exact. The ability of relaxing, enjoying, and communicating in easy and intense matters. Using the Law of Attraction is hugely helpful for Relationships Attraction, and it's not difficult to understand.

What are inherent traits of being self-confident?

1. Knowing what you want.

2. Self-assurance. Feeling assured that what you desire is within your reach.

3. Self-esteem. Knowing you're worthy of what you desire.

4. Poise. Under most circumstances you keep non-plussed.

What I am getting at is the non-physical aspects of 'Personality'. An engaging personality has nothing to do with physical looks. You can attract your own Law of Attraction Relationships today and sky-rocket your level of creative energy!

Many people I've met, whether they're going back into the dating scene, or just considering it get halted with forces of the game. "I am no longer a spring chicken." "I can't compete with the attractive people." "The singles game is so superficial."

That kind of internal monologue will never allow you back into circulation. Feeling confident, holding an engaging mindset, and simply keeping a ready, real smile and acting kindly, are the winners of the day. Realize that you do not have to do the singles dating scene. You can find Mr. or Ms. Right in a department store, at church, on a run, anywhere. Do not hold yourself by what others say.

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