For the first time in my life, I find myself surrounded by examples of people in wonderful partnership relationships, primarily lasting relationships. Take Don and Barbara. I think they have been married sixty+ years. I hadn't seen Barbara prior to her quite extensive hospital visit that began in mid-December! I eventually made it a point to bring over some flowers and have some quality time with little old Barbara. Barbara and Don are role models for my husband and I. Their partnership is such an model of a stable, rich, abiding love. Following that visit I was deeply moved by the depth of their relationship. They have six adult children and are into the great-grandchildren generation of life. Don cares for Barbara with unwavering faith that her strength will come back.

Witnessing this type of connection is beyond words, really. The atmosphere was filled with knowing and endearment. Words don't work as I attempt to express the union.

Then there are my in-laws. Here again, an example of two lovers who've been through a life full of ups and downs. There is a stability and enduring quality that is so palpable and gives comfort. They've created children who have aspirations of relationships based on communication, mutual respect, laughing, and love. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is hugely helpful for Relationships Attraction, and it's not difficult to understand.

By contrast, there are many families in which many of us have been raised where strife, arguing, and anxiety were a daily occurrences. Interestingly, in either case, there is no "guarantee" that we will model our Mom and Dad. Failing marriages and partnerships still occur when the model was stable and based on love, mutual values, and respect.

So What Is It? A Magic Formula?

So what's actually happening here? They appear to have the magic formula down pact. Has it always been that simple for them? I doubt it. But, these people continuously sustained their will to create and re-create possibility in their love. I am sure life wasn't all perfect and wonderful for them. But they go back to the source of who they are in their relationship with each other. You can attract your own Law of Attraction Relationships today and sky-rocket your level of positive potential!

So why is it different for a lot of us? Everyone comes into this world wanting a little bit of this and a some of that. To change it up. Granted, we tend to be coming into a higher reality in which we can choose more of that which we really want, instead of functioning on creating-by-default setting. We've learned to use the contrast as a point of distinguishing; realizing the contrast of a failed partnership to better define what we desire in a relationship that works; one that is is full of love and clear communication.

Certainly the contrast is good information. But what if you've had enough contrast and you don't know what to do next? If you've read "Create the Love of Your Dreams" or you haev been reading about any of the Law of Attraction teachers, they all say, keep your nose directed to the direction of what it feels like to already have what it is you desire. If you need the help of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means get support! Having an independent listener to talk to will help you move away from old patterns much more quickly.

I'll grant you that sometimes it seems easier said than accomplished. That's where retaining a practice and an accountability comes into play. Why live life being at the effect of it rather than at the creation of it? Find a group, or a buddy with whom you can co-create some perfect relationship affirmations and hold each other accountable for your words and actions.

There's always personal coaching. It's not like psychotherapy that some people keep going to for years and years. Coaching is done to give you the power to to realize where you need to tweak your vibration and understand your own personal inner mechanisms so you can start to manifest the life of your dreams.

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