I manifested emotionally unavailable lovers, men who were very far away, or were always traveling. Even though my father was emotionally unavailable, I figured that because I consciously knew it, I would consciously choose loving relationships with men that were available. Even approaching the last relationship I had prior to having my relationship breakthrough, the person I was in a relationship with would not commit.

I got the principles of the Law of Attraction and figured I was functioning correctly in putting those principles into practice. However, there was a piece that was still out of place.

As a Law of Attraction Coach, I'm abundantly clear in stating that if you really want to have a relationship that causes your heart to sing - not just any type of relationship - but a truly amazing, abundant, love relationship - it takes a certain type of focused desire.

Many people who are trying to understand the Law of Attraction and how it will work for them in their lives are actually asking, "What do I have to do? What do I have to do differently? What I've been doing isn't working." You can create Law of Attraction Relationships right now and increase your level of positive potential!

So you have been asking, and desiring a wonderful, committing love relationship and you want to know, where is my perfect relationship? Why do I continue to attract the wrong guy?

Let us go over some Law of Attraction basics.

In understanding the Law of Attraction, we have accepted that this is a vibrational Universe - that all things are made of energy. This energy is in continuous movement and is always expanding and is vibrating at all times. All things ARE energy. Your thoughts, your shoes, cosmic bodies, mosquitoes... everything. Your thoughts are energy and have the capability to manifest. Your thoughts are creating if you know about the Law of Attraction or not.

The question is, "What kinds of things are going through your head? What quality do your thoughts have? Are you paying close watch to your wants from a perspective of expectation or a place of negativity?

By honed desire I mean the type of desire that is placed uncompromisingly on that which you desire from the point of view of already having what it is you want, rather than being focused in opposition of what you want.

As stated before, the Law of Attraction explains that "what you place your attention on will expand in your life experience. So it is very important to understand whether you are wanting from a perspective of lacking what you want or from a point of already having it.

Desiring from the place of lacking (that is, looking at the lack of it as in 'Why isn't it here yet?') puts you in the resisting mode. In other words, the Universe vibrationally matches your thoughts, what you expect, and your beliefs about your mind - you're emitting a dominant vibration in the area of relationship - with situations and people that are paired with your beliefs.

I was just on the phone with a woman in my Magnetic Attraction Program. She wants to know why her friend who is very negative and prone to complaining just got engaged, while she remains single and alone. Can you hear it? Can you guess why? Does this sound like you? Number 1 keep your mind on your vibration. What someone else is doing is none of your concern. If you're comparing what's out there to what is going on with you, you will be shot down each time. Personal creation is something you do inside. Imagine and feel your way to what you want. Secondly, this woman has her attention honed on being single and lonely. The universe can simply respond to that! The Universe says: "Oh, Mary wants more of the single and lonely experience. We love her very much and would never go against her free will. Let's give her more of what she's desiring".

The program that I was using was "I'm playing it safe and perpetually hold a little back. That way if things go south, I can always get out without very much hurt".

If you are single and wanting lasting love, pose this question to yourself: "What is my dominant vibration or limited belief concerning it being possible for me?" Surface up those blocks, think and feel yourself to a new feeling place. You can change your point of attraction immediately. Now all there is to do is continue there and love the result.

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