It's easy to revert back to old ways of thinking when you've had difficulty trying to find a love relationship, especially one that you can call a soulmate relationship. Many of us feel that these special kinds of loves are reserved for only a few people on the planet. Most of us know couples who get along okay and their relationship seem to have lost their spark and luster. That need not be the case.

Tina from New Zealand asked me "How do I release negative thinking when I'm trying to find my soulmate"? First off, it's certainly not your fault that you have negative thoughts. It's basically the way most of us have been trained. And take the premise of Romantic love as depicted in the movies and TV, it's all rather impractical.

There's this little old thing called a limiting belief. It plays big time in our belief in our worthiness to have what we truly desire in our ideal soulmate relationship. Limiting thought patterns are something we've picked up from cultural indoctrination. We've all got them. It's just, for most of us, we don't realize they're a player in your soulmate attraction abilities. The first step is to know they're there. Then you know you can do something with them.

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