"How do you know whether you're blocking or not allowing what you want to flow to you?"

One of my readers asked me that question recently. It's a vital question and one that we all need to revisit from time to time.

The answer is another question. "How long have you been wanting and waiting for your desire to manifest?" Is the answer 2 days, 2 months or 12 years? You can tell if you're blocking what you desire by the most obvious way. Has it shown up yet? And how do you feel about that? Are you contented and knowing? Or are you wondering and worrying? It may seem obvious that when you're allowing, your desires manifest fairly regularly.

Let's review how we know when we are attracting and allowing.

When you feel good; comfortable, calm, certain, stable, contented, these are indicators of an emotional state which is allowing of your natural state of connection with your Source. Our natural state of Source connection is one in which we know the Universe supports our very being. Your very being is worthy, loved, known, whole. Your essential being is one where Source knows you as nothing lacking - perfect, whole and complete.

When you feel good, you feel God (Source connection). When you're in that flow you are centered in the state of allowing. Your desire has to come about quickly in that state. In that state you are resisting (or blocking) no thing that you desire.

"But I feel good most of the time. Where's my stuff?"

Is that the next question you are asking? Apparently that's not actually the case. I ask you to really have a closer look. How do you begin each day? How do you end each day? Do you hear the small voice of chronic anxiety or complaining?

At the end of each day, what's the balance of your energy? Take your energy pulse. Listen in to your internal dialogs. You may have a smile on your face. You may say only pleasing things. But what's running in the background? If you're not manifesting your desires, it's likely the undistinguished beliefs and thoughts that are running the show.

3 Simple Steps to Manifest Now

1. Get clear on your desire. 2. Get the static off the wire. 3. Take actions that are inspired. You can learn this by a good self-study course, law of attraction coach, or law of attraction books. It's much easier and faster when you work with a good law of attraction coach.

The amount of time it takes to release the resistance is always up to you. You are worthy, you are powerful. Getting the static off the wire by doing an energy diagnostic and practicing daily gratitude will help you have fastest manifesting results.

Now you know how to tell if you have you been blocking or allowing your desires. This is how to become more attractive to your desires. It's always up to you.

A Law of Attraction Coach may be just the answer you need to being stuck in your life.

In this day and age many cars are included with the possibility of getting a GPS device. GPS is an acronym that stands for Global Positioning System. Most everyone knows what a GPS is and has at least a vague idea of how they function. There is a satellite in the sky somewhere that sends signals to receiving devices on the earth and then there's the receiver installed in your car. It's fairly over my head, but between these three locations, and somehow by measuring the distance between the three spots, it finds out your exact location and how to get where you are trying to go. Pretty ingenious technology, wouldn't you concur?

Just as, if not more, ingeniously, our feelings give us supremely important guidance.

Our feelings are guidance that tell us whether we are in the attracting mode or in the resisting mode. It's not just our thinking. It is how we emotionally react to our thoughts, and the emotions and attachments we have about those thoughts. The dominating thought or emotion is the one that is being transmitted to the Universe. The Universe just matches and projects back to us what we've been sending out like a GPS. Like brings back like. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is a hugely powerful tool for Relationship Attraction, and it's simple to grasp.

When you feel negative emotion, this is guidance from your EGS (Emotional Guidance System) informing you that you are squeezing off the flow of your natural happiness. When you experience any negative emotions, it means that you have attachment to something that is unwanted or that you do not agree with. Many of us get stuck in the story of negative emotion: why it shouldn't be in our lives, that something MUST be worth getting upset over, get it out of my life quickly, and so on. That is resistance. You're resisting what is happening and you are resisting the negative emotion. A Law of Attraction Coach can assist you right now to free yourself from old limiting thought patterns that inhibit your happiness.

When viewed purely as information, negative emotion can turn constructive. Now you're free from the story and drama and you have the ability to change. you will begin to cease attracting more of what you do not desire and you'll be able to clear the negative emotion out so you halt suffering. Pain and suffering both come as a result of the story you tell yourself about what has occurred. An event occurs, you put meaning to it, and you suffer. The stuff happening is going to keep happening. You have a choice concerning how you choose to see it; good, bad, or with no attachment at all. Your perspective and your suffering is always your option. You can create your own Law of Attraction Relationships today to help increase your positive vibration!

Turns out it is not difficult to align your EGS. When you're feeling good you're moving creative energy; channelling Source energy. When you are feeling bad you are pinching it off. It lets you know that you can now make a better choice.

You can learn more secrets to relationship attraction in my FREE VIDEO from the new DVD, “7 Secrets to Find and Keep the Love of Your Dreams.” Just go to http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/

Naturally on Mother's Day our thoughts turn to our Mothers and the amazing gifts they've given us. I have such huge appreciation not just for my mother, but for all mothers. It's truly miraculous that because of mothers the human race continues on. (Of course fathers take part in that, too.) However, if we're fortunate most of us when we think of mother, think of nurturer, guide, and someone you can count on.

Less than favorable attributes also come to mind, but then again, my mother had 7 children. What women isn't going to get crazed from time to time with children?

My mother, who left the earth plane this past December, was born in the 1930's. There was a lot less permission and possibility for women of her era. So while I have picked up some very important gifts from my mom, there were others that I had to learn, re-learn or unlearn and in some cases the hard way.

Here are 5 Things My Mother Never Taught Me...

1. You can have it all. You're only limited by your imagination.

She never taught me that I could have it all. Having it all was construed from a selfish perspective. After all, if I had it all that meant someone would go with out.

We know this is not true in a limitless universe. We also know that we live in a loving, abundant universe. So love and abundance is on our side. You can't out-do Infinite Intelligence.

2. You are good enough right now. You don't have to prove anything to become worthy.

I now know I am and you are worthy right now - exactly as you are and exactly as you are not.

3. Nobody is better than you and no one is less than you.

"Of course there's better and worse, just look around you". That was the thought construct of her day. For many, it still is. But now I know that we are all one. And though at times I'm tempted to think I'm not good enough. Or that I'm better than ... in my heart of hearts I know we are all perfect, whole and complete.

4. Don't worry about what others think, say or do. Play your own game. Run your own race.

I know it's not a easy one, but living from a self-referenced point of view will always bring you back to peace.

5. Success is measured in the amount of joy you experience in any day.

In Mom's day and still today the dominant cultural belief is that success is the measure of your net worth; bank account, real estate holdings and stock portfolio, etc. Not so. Success is ultimately defined by how much joy, peace, and inner freedom you enjoy every single day.

Stocks, real estate, and currencies all appreciate and depreciate. You can increase your inner game of success and experience appreciation of the inner assets by practicing appreciation. What you focus on appreciates (expands.) Sounds like the Law of Attraction.

I don't fault my mother for not teaching me these things. She was a product of her culture. I'm glad that energy and beliefs are shifting - and shifting fast.

Being a mother is the biggest job in the world. Mothers have a lot of power and influence. The motto: "Do as I say not as I do" is no longer viable for our youth. The importance of being in alignment with your actions holds massive influence on our children.

Taking the time for your own alignment and well-being is critical for your ability to effectively model new higher truths for your children. Be good to yourself. Take your personal time outs. You have a lot of power, mothers. You're worthy, brilliant and important. Be good to you. Model well-being. Walk your talk. If not you - then who? If not now - then when?

If you need help grasping the Law of Attraction, a Law of Attraction Coach might be just the thing you need to overcome indoctrinated beliefs and limiting, self-defeating patterns of thinking.

If you don't like the story of a movie, make a different story. We have all been fooled into thinking that the reality we are living is etched in stone. It isn't. You're able to morph it at any point you desire. You're in truth more like a screenwriter and movie director than you may think. Take some time and consider how you might like your life story to occur. If you do not enjoy this one, make up a better one. I am not kidding. You can create your own Law of Attraction Relationships today to help increase your positive vibration!

There are a couple ideas I want to cover to make your life re-creation a bit simpler. If you'd like to change your life as it stands, you must first stop resisting it. That is, you have to learn to be alright with what is so and stop putting as much focus on how bad, inappropriate, lonely, or uneventful it is. If you keep your mind on what's so, you will simply be creating an increased amount of that. So, make peace with where you are; let it be no huge deal and then play full out in manifesting the reality you desire. The kind of life that has you wanting to get into life. The kind of life you'd be showing up for in a joyous and exuberant way. A Law of Attraction Coach can assist you today to free yourself from old limiting thought patterns that inhibit your happiness.

If you are single and want to be happily in love, learn to be ok with your current situation. Appreciate every good thing about your life at this moment. Then start imagining how your life will be when...

You have your sweety to hold hands with. You can go on a weekend vacation; You have your first wedding anniversary. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is an incredibly powerful tool for Relationship Attraction, and it's easy to understand.

Current reality usually gets more of our attention, so naturally that's what we attract more of. Find a friend you can play the game of Telling A Different Story with. Make it a daily practice to write down your life as you desire it to be. You're the writer, director, and casting agent of your life movie so make it a good one.

You can learn more secrets to relationship attraction in my FREE VIDEO from the new DVD, “7 Secrets to Find and Keep the Love of Your Dreams.” Just go to http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/