Nanette Geiger is the Best Selling Author of "Create the Love of Your Dreams" and Top Law of Attraction Life and Relationship Coach. Nanette's students have manifested the lives and loves of their dreams, financial well being, and healthful bodies, to name just a few of the successes available to you.
Desire is both healthy and natural. The most natural thing we can do is to have a desire. Desire is the impulse and intention that propels the entire Universe. Quantum Physics and Spiritual teachers are all telling us that the nature of the Universe and the nature of God is ever expanding, boundless. And the nature of God is boundless in love, creation, freedom, joy, compassion and so on.
If love makes the world go round and I believe it does, then DESIRE is the fuel to the engine!
I remember many years ago when I was first learning about desire and attraction and Universal Energy. One really big point that was not made clear to me was the point of “unresisted” desire. That is to say, I didn't learn how to have a desire that is in the energy of really loving, appreciating and expecting to have what I desired. Certainly, I wanted plenty of things in life, it's just that I had some resistance to having what I wanted. And I wasn't aware of the resistance. Therefore, I had resisted desire. I believed that you had to struggle and work really hard and for a long time for everything. I believed you had to prove yourself worthy of practically everything in life. Comprehending unresisted desire can be very difficult; to help you understand how to truly align your energy with the Universe, a Law of Attraction Coach may be of great help to you.
I started to hear all about how we could align with the energy of the Universe, or God energy and that God wanted us to have every good thing. That sounded really good to me. In fact, in my heart of hearts I knew that God truly wanted me, and all of his creations to thrive and be outrageously happy. After all, that's the very nature of God, I thought. But I never really heard about HOW to receive or line up with what I wanted in a way that allowed it to be my life experience. I desired Law of Attraction Relationships and to connect at the highest levels with someone I could love unconditionally.
Learning how to be in alignment with your desires is what makes manifestation easy. Being in alignment is the same as feeling worthy of having what you want. It's the same as having no judgments about having it, being free from other peoples' opinions about you having it, and being without any internal dialogs about what it means to have what you want.
It doesn't matter if that desire is lots of money, a loving relationship, or physical well-being. You were born worthy. From the point of view of Universal Intelligence, this was never in question. Relationship Attraction is one of the many reasons people first gain interest in the Law of Attraction.
The best way to get clear about your Desire is to find ways of feeling what it will be like to already have what you want. Feel the ease, joy, freedom and gratitude of having what you want. When you ease into the feeling mode, you're access the vibration of attracting what you want. You are like attracting like. Now you have the Law of Attraction working for you.
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In Part One of this two part series, we examined what it means to live life unconditionally. Life without conditions simply means that nothing has to be different, new or improved for you to lead a fully satisfying, happy life. That's a radical concept for many.
One big key is to know what you want without placing your attention on the lack of having it.
HOW DO YOU MOVE TOWARD WHAT YOU WANT WITHOUT NOTICING THE LACK OF IT?
Naturally you notice what's wanted from a point of lack. Otherwise you wouldn't even want it, you'd have it. So notice briefly what you want and immediately start feeling and pretending what it WILL be like WHEN it shows up. Play more, engage your childlike innocence and creativity and imagine it into being. The Law of Attraction is a wonderful tool for positive realization for your life.
CUT TO THE CHASE
Get in the feeling mode, the state of already HAVING it. Explore and experience what the ESSENCE of the state of already having that thing, event or relationship manifest. Be it. Ooze it. Swim in it. Not only will you be a powerful broadcaster of the joyful fulfillment of your desires, you'll also be the magnetic ATTRACTOR and ALLOWER of them, too! Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is hugely powerful for Relationship Attraction, and is not hard to understand.
That's what I did in Creating the Love of my DREAMS.
WE DON'T CREATE ABUNDANCE
"We don't create abundance. Abundance is always present. We create limitation. We are the Source of power. We are the creators of all we experience. The ultimate tool is Appreciation." Arnold Patent
When you stop resisting and start appreciating, you create a space, you open a vortex for your desires to show up. They've always been there - the love, the abundance, the freedom. You were resisting them by saying "they're not here", "more money's going out than coming in", "he won't clean his room." This is your order to the Universe for more of the same. If you don't want that, STOP IT! If you need the support of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get support! Using an unbiased listener to check in with will help you move off old patterns much more quickly.
Start appreciating the perfection of everything, your journey, this process, your home, your money, your children. The Ultimate tool is Appreciation.
Think of the word that's opposite of Appreciation - it's Depreciation. If like attracts like, what you place your appreciation on expands. It appreciates. What you place your depreciation on expands in depreciation. It depreciates.
Try it out. Prove me (and the Universe) wrong. And let me know how it's working.
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What if you were sure, you absolutely KNEW that your wealth, your body, your relationship, your kids, your job, your house, and anything else in your experience was absolutely PERFECT - exactly the way it is right now?!
How about if your mind, your present state of being was that your entire life - just as it is right now - without any changes, or need for anything different, was perfect?
This is the definition of an UNCONDITIONAL LIFE.
Ponder that a second. Unconditionally living means that nothing need be different for you to enjoy freedom, joy, peace, abundance, and being completely fulfilled. How about that?
Often we as deliberate attractors desire to understand the barriers in the way of reaching our desires. I know I find myself in that place from time to time. Life gets hectic and I sometimes forget to carry my most important desire - to feel happy - around with me the entire day. Things happen. For example, an angry conversation with a friend, and I climb on my high horse for awhile and talk about how it should not be that way. If you need the support of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get support! Having an unbiased listener to talk to can help you move off old patterns much faster.
Of course, I realize that's in opposition to feeling the way I want - to feel happy. However, sometimes, my ego wants to get in front and center. And it does - but not for long.
I remember to accept what's occurring for all that it is. Have a look in the mirror, remove any judging from the situation, person or yourself. Then release it. I accept what is, no matter what it looks like. You can attract perfect Law of Attraction Relationships when you free yourself from fear and bondage.
Remember the work is to be in harmony with your desires. Everyone wants to understand what our personal barriers are to having what we desire. However, focusing on what is keeping you and receiving what you desire is in direct opposition to the Law of Attraction. That is, you only desire to search for what's blocking you so that you can ease yourself, pivot off that and start going properly in the direction of what it feels like to have what you DO desire.
Think about what your life would be like if you could create what you wanted, if you weren't in the ALLOWING mode. Then you'd have no idea how you were getting the things you had. You would not comprehend your personal emotional guiding system. You wouldn't know how to model and replicate attracting and manifesting. It would be the Law of Variability - there would be no consistency and that is not a law at all. Start empowering yourself right now and experience Law of Attraction Love.
The Law of Attraction keeps things concrete and continuous with no variances involved. The key point to comprehend is that a Universal Law is the same under all circumstance.
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Would you like some great energy tools that have an immediate impact on your vibration - and therefore your magnetism? Laughter and Toning.
Laugher is truly excellent medicine for whatever ails you. Now obviously if you don't find anything humorous, it's hard to make yourself laugh. right? Or is it?
Try this: Just exhale with a strong breath on the syllable 'HA'. And do this engaging the diaphragm. The diaphragm is a little exercised part of our anatomy. When you work with your diaphragm and lungs in this way, you're getting much fuller breaths. You oxygenate the blood and brain. Now try exhaling on the syllables in rapid succession HA-HA-HA-HA-HA. Bounce your belly, while you're doing it, you're just engaged the diaphragm. Now try it varying the tonality, the volume. Then stretch it out. The Law of Attraction is a wonderful tool for positive manifestation for your life.
You can do this in your car, going to and from work or on breaks. I know it seems silly. But Silly is GOOD. Try this with a friend. If you play with a friend, I guarantee you'll both end up laughing for real. It's hard to do this without activating a true belly laugh. If you need the support of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get support! Using an independent listener to talk to can help you move off outdated patterns much more quickly.
Another way to raise your vibe fast is TONING. Similar to singing, but you tone for the sake of feeling sound reverberate through your body. You're not going for a pretty sound, just sound for the sake of sound. The sound you make is the right sound. Feel it move through your sinuses, throat. Feel the breath and vibrations through your body. Do it for a few seconds to as long as you like. Try it for a few seconds to as long as you like. Start empowering yourself right now and experience Law of Attraction Love.
Remember, these are simple and silly, fun and playful. I'll bet you've got a few energy tools you use and you don't even know it. Anything you do to take a break from feeling bland, blank, disengaged and drained. It might be squeezing or bouncing a ball, watching the birds, blowing bubbles. I keep a little bottle of bubbles on my desk. Stand up and stretch, do some hip rotations. It's another way of tuning into your body. And remember to stay hydrated. Drink lots of water. Drinking water not only hydrates, it grounds you as well. Remember your body is a bundle of energetic fields. Take good care of you on all levels. When you use energy management tools, you'll be less likely to go for that caffeine and sugar pick-me-up.
You'll start being in the present more often. And remember, your present is always the most powerful place to be.
You can learn more secrets to relationship in my FREE VIDEO from the new DVD, “7 Secrets to Find and Keep the Love of Yourattraction Dreams.” Just go to http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/
Do you perceive what your vibe on wealth is? Here is the single most effective way to understand what your vibrational equivalent to financial wealth is. Have a look at your banking accounts. What is your current relationship with money? Your bank account will tell you without fail.
What you're presently going through in life is an indicator of what you have been holding in your field of energy. The good thing is that can change instantly once you clear out the old habits of thought that have retained your stinking thinking stuck. The Law of Attraction is a wonderful tool for positive manifestation for your life.
Reason 1: Anxiety
Whether it is every day anxiety or anxiety related to the problem of not enough money, anxiety is like placing a giant red STOP sign to the Universe. The Universe is non-judgmental, and just projects back to you more situations to feel anxiety about. So if you are worried about finances, or another negative emotion, do whatever it takes to soothe your anxious thoughts. And I'm not suggesting you go unconscious about it. Just realize what you are thinking and direct that thinking to the direction of thoughts of appreciation for all the gifts in your life at this moment.
Reason 2: Complaints
Do you realize you are being annoyed by the lousy waiter at a restaurant, yelling at a mindless cab driver, or griping over your child's room because it looks like a hurricane came through it? These thoughts might not be about money, the vibration sends out more for the Universe to send back to you. Complaints and criticizing instantly close the heart chakra down. The energy of your heart is 5000 times more potent than that of your brain. Retain an open heart. Practice release and forgiveness often to keep your heart open to love. You can manifest perfect Law of Attraction Relationships when you free yourself from fear and bondage.
Reason 3: Arguing For Your Limitations
Justifications are simply excuses you think are true. Why continue to call situations the way they are if you don't like it the way they are? Try telling a new story. Tell it like you want it to be, rather than how you see it. "But isn't that simply wishing for change?" It may be wishful thinking, but it's not JUST wishful thinking, it is creative manifestation. The only job you have is to feel the emotional state of what that 'wish' will feel like when it's actually here. "Yeah, but..."
The economy is lousy and I cannot get above water.
I've always not been able to manage my finances.
I have heaps of debt.
I can't make ends meet.
You should not trust people with lots of money.
In any down economy plenty of people have acquired fortunes. The rest are simply plain bad excuses. Grab a hold of those thought patterns that function in the back of your mind and put a muzzle on them. Choose more empowering thinking. The more you practice positive thinking, the more you'll choose actions that line up with wealth-producing activities. Using the Law of Attraction is hugely powerful for Relationship Attraction, and it's not hard to understand.
To keep every good thing flowing to you make it your life-long practice to enjoy and appreciate as much as you can - as often as you can.
You can learn more secrets to relationship in my FREE VIDEO from the new DVD, “7 Secrets to Find and Keep the Love of Yourattraction Dreams.” Just go to http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/